OLD can be great, especially for those of us who are not of the age to hang around in bars and night clubs, but it isn't the only solution for those of us searching for a partner. My advice would be to try all sorts of new experiences and to be open to possibilities. The moral of the story is that potential partners can be met anywhere, at any time, probably when one least expects it. The situation now is that we are together after almost twenty years and we have never been happier. I began to think that for some reason she might indeed find me attractive (I am not great at reading the signals that people send out, by the way). However, she kept in touch via occasional postcards and messages and after a year we met again. I moved soon after our meeting to a new home about 80 miles away and had some enjoyable times on OLD while giving little thought to my former client. I found her really attractive, but I thought that she would see nothing in me. Grieving for your loss might take a long time. 3 Clear signs that you are ready for dating after divorce Divorce means loss of companionship, emotional/ financial support, and the demise of hopes and dreams. One of my clients was a woman ten years my junior who came in for advice on her employment contract. The only way to find true love after a divorce is to accept your present and cultivate a renewed sense of hope and optimism. At the time I was a volunteer adviser at the Citizens Advice Bureau. I was in my mid forties when I got divorced.
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